Monday, January 18, 2010

Welcome to Lori and Mike's blog!

While visiting with Mike and Lori tonight, Mike shared with me that although they deeply appreciate all the phone calls they receive  everyday, it is a bit overwhelming for him and he simply can't keep up!  They don't want people to stop calling, but there are times that Lori is not up to talking on the phone, and Mike is unable to call everyone back.  So, as a way to help Lori and Mike during this difficult time, this blog is being created as a way for all of their friends and family to be informed on how they are doing.  I plan on connecting with them everyday, and posting updates here everyday - maybe even several times a day. 

There are a couple ways that you can participate in this blog...if you talk with or visit with Mike or Lori and want me to post an update here (aka:  if you know something I don't know!), you can email me at: takemetomaui (at) hotmail (dot) com.  I will post it as soon as I am able to.  You can also leave a comment by clicking on "comments" at the bottom of each post.  (You'll be asked to choose a "profile" and you can just click on "anonymous".  After you write your comment, click on "publish".  Sometimes you have to do this more than once to make it go through.  I know, lame.  Let me know if you have problems).

This is more than just a place to share information...I would like this to be a place of hope.  A place of prayer.  And a place to share the love of Christ with our dear friends Lori and Mike, as well as with eachother - those of us who know and love them and come along side them as they walk this journey together.

Tonight, Lori is feeling very weak.  Her pain is being controlled by medication and they are keeping her as comfortable as possible.  She says she is at peace...a peace that passes all understanding for sure.  I asked her and Mike recently what specifically we can be praying for them...Lori said "courage", and her concern is for Mike more than for herself.  Mike only asks for prayer for Lori, that she would not have to suffer.  Lori was in pretty good spirits tonight, and enjoyed the many visitors she had while I was there.  She drifts in and out of sleep, and even though she needs her rest she still wants people to come.

Just in case you aren't fully aware of what is going on, Lori was diagnosed with primary liver cancer in October, 2009.  She had a short treatment of chemotherapy, which was not successful.  Other treatment options were unfortunatly ruled out. Last Friday, Lori was told by her doctors that she had about a week to live. 

That is what the doctors are saying......now here is what God says: 

"Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope:
Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed,
for his compassions never fail.
They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness."  Lamentations 3:21-23

"Shout for joy, O heavens; rejoice, O earth;
burst into song, O mountains!
For the LORD comforts his people
and will have compassion on his afflicted ones". - Isaiah 49:13

"For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb.
I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful, I know that full well. 
My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place.
When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,
your eyes saw my unformed body.
All the days ordained for me were written in your book
before one of them came to be." - Psalm 139:13-16

We love you, Lori and Mike, and are standing in the gap for you!!

Lisa Howard

26 comments:

  1. We love you guys! Mike...Call me!
    Vince

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  2. Lori,
    I think about you and pray for you every day.
    Robin Stearns

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  3. Your are in my thoughts and prayers. God be with you both.

    Wendy Everson

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  4. I am always thinking about you and Mike and what your going through. God loves you both and he'll be there for both of you.Love to you both

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  5. Love you LORI AND MIKE,you will always be in my heart and in my prayers, cousin Jan

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  6. Thinking of you all the time Lori and missing your emails!! Praying for your strength and Mike's.

    Carrie Carstensen

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  7. Hello Lori....It was sooo good to see you again this morning...I'm glad we had a bit of time to spend talking together. With all that is happening you still show courage! And to Mike, haven't had the time to talk to you much these last few days but we want you both to know that you are in our hearts & prayers all the time & only a phone call away! God Bless you both on this journey through life .
    Curt & Dorothy (Mama D. to you Lori)

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  8. Lori: You have touched many people in your life and we are all blessed to have known you. You have made a difference to each and every one of us. God's peace now and we will see each other again one day. Love, Shirley Claffy and family.

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  9. Mike and Lori: When I first read on a Facebook page that "they" weren't letting Lori go home, I thought to myself, "What are they talking about? She can go home anytime God wants her to! Her home is not of this earth, it is in heaven, with God and no one can take that away from her!" I know that God can heal. However, if His choice is not to heal her now, she will get to go home. And I cannot think of a better hope than that! Blessings and prayers to both of you! Love, Mary Meyer and family.

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  10. Lori, you are a true blessing to each and everyone of us. You set a wonderful example of your faith.May our Lord and Savior be our with you and Mike every step of the way. remember that Jesus loves you and He is waiting to give you the biggest hug. Love you Julie Pose.

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  11. Far away cousins are praying for you, and trusting our loving God to give you strength and peace. Obciously He has touched many through you.

    Love, Audrey

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  12. Lori, you are certainly a joy to all of us who have been lucky enough to know you. Your kindness and generosity are topped by none. There is no greater gift than to bring a smile to someone's day, and you, my friend, have done that for all of us. God is taking care of you and Mike. Peace be with you both. Love, Sharon Woellert

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  13. My thoughts and prayers for you Lori you brought us such happiness in Podiatry with all of your wonderful and exciting stories about Alaska, when I get there I will diffently be thinking of you. I know God is holding you in his hand even now. You will be so missed, I will continue keeping you in my prayers. Thank you so much for sharing your happiness and love with us.
    Alice Hughes

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  14. Holly and Steve Muller write;
    How can we thank God enough for the time you have given us? YOU, LORI& Mike, are TREASURES to us and will never leave our hearts NO MATTER WHAT!!! And I, Holly- want to rest beside you, Lori. I want to hold your hand, I want to never let you know lonliness since it was your love that kept us all together so often in fellowship!
    Your letting me be a part of your Alaska trip was email perfect and refreshing! What a GIFT you are to US ALL! Loving you like crazy! Holly

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  15. Lori - I still can't believe this is happening and keep thinking I'll wake up from a bad dream... I am so grateful to have known you and so admire your strength and courage. You have touched more lives than you will ever know, you were a joy to all that knew you. I wish you peace until we meet again some day.
    Marla Halasy

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  16. Hey Lori and Mike! Do you remember when we were in the Rainbow of Love group that celebrated all sides of adoption! Adult adoptees, waiting parents, birth parents, adoptive parents?! You may not realize, but I reflect many times on the stories and wisdom you shared. Because of that, I believe we are better parents. Love you lots! Angi Strange

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  17. My Dear Lori, you know that when you go I am not just losing a friend but a sister. I have and will continue to miss our girls nights out, shoping, petticures, just the time we have spent together. My children will miss you they love you so much as I do. God keep her close and know that she will be missed by all the Peaslee family, Mike you won't be able to get rid of us we all love you very much as well.

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  18. Dear Lori, though I've not had the fortune to get acquainted with you and your husband Mike, from reading this blog, it sounds like you have brought much love, joy and friendship to many. What a blessing you are!
    I'd like to share with you an experience that I've had:
    I lost a dear friend to illness a few years back. Hers was a lengthy illness that ravaged her body. One Sunday morning during worship,God (totally unexpectedly)let me see her in her heavenly home. She was beautiful! Healthy, whole and smiling with radiant light surrounding her. It was amazing!! He is amazing.
    I pray for God's peace to be with you, Mike, your family and friends. That kind of peace that only comes from Him.
    He continually prompts me to pray for you because though we don't know one another, we are Sisters in Christ. God bless Candace Corey

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  19. Lori & Mike, you have been constantly in my prayer's!

    Thanks for asking Sonny about how I was doing. ya can always tell a loving person, they'll be the ones asking about you rather than being focused on their own pain.

    That is a testament to your character!

    I am doing good.

    Prayer's for comfort, peace, and much more during this time.

    Jus' a brother in Christ,

    Injun Andy

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  20. Lori,
    I don't know what to say anymore. I can't believe a pain in the side has lead up to this! What I really want to say is...We really and sincerely appreciate everything you have done for us and everyone.
    From the day that we moved into the aparment I thought and knew that we had something special. That friendship and love has grown into something special and something that we would've never imagined. You have been there to celebrate w/ us: Jill & my marriage, births of Lily and Brayden and watching them grow so fast as well as spoiling them like grandchildren. You were also there when I needed comfort and support for my dad. You brought the LORD in our lives and family and touched many, many others in more ways than you will ever know. We will miss the campfires, bbqs, shopping, having supper, and many other things we've done. Although you will eventually be leaving us on earth, we will NEVER forget you and we know that you will with us wherever we go and whatever we do.
    Don't worry about Mike, all of us will take great care of him. We will see you again in the Kingdom of Heaven someday. We love you always and forever!! God Bless you and Mike each and everyday!! Thanks again and we love you!! Jared, Jill, Lily, and Brayden Hutsell

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  21. Lori & Mike I posted something yesterday but forgot to sign my name and I wanted you toknow that I am thinking about you and Mike everyday and the things that you are going through. God loves you both and is there for the both of you. I pray your neausa goes away and your pain can be controlled. You have a lot of people waiting for you, and your beatiful smile and couregous courage . you are one of kind. You will be greatly missed. But know in your heart of hearts you were truley loved and have many many friends that care and love you. Mike will be taken care of to.God be with you both.

    Love youLori,

    Teri Kautz

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  22. Good morning Lori and Mike. Mike I am glad to hear that your mom is coming into town today. Lori I hope you are having a better day today. If the weather was better, I would really like to come out and see you, but I do not know if I am going to be able to do that or not. I think about you all day long. I wish I could be there with you. Love you lots

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  23. Our Loving Lori, It's time and time again that we think of you and can only shout,"God; WE LOVE HER, WE LOVE HER, WE LOVE HER!" I think He's got the message. If He has to have you, He will be reminded continuously that He needs to have a Stand-By Hugger on duty to provide you with all the love time we'll be missing! I hope the arms are strong and warm! When ever I think of you, YOU'LL BE SQUEEZED!!!! We hope to visit tomorrow after noon. WE want to see those Viking Nails! May your spirit persevere; showing forth God's Glory in your every minute yet given to us on earth. Only loving you more every day....Holly Muller =)

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  24. Well it is now almost 11 PM on Sat. night. I have had you on my mind all day... I missed not seeing you today...I will miss not being in touch with you forever but what I wanted to say to you is thank you, thank you for being my new "daughter" for these years...little did I know when your mom ask me to take care of you when she passed did I ever realize this would happen, but what a blessing you are to me...be sure & tell your mom that I am giving you back to her with all the pride a mother has, she did a good job with you & remember when we talked the other day when I told you how you had showed me how it is to live life to the fullest & now you are showing me how to be courageous as you are preparing for your new life with our Father...I love you, Lori & I always will. You have left me with so many memories that I will cherish forever..thank you sweetie. Well I have babbled enouph now & I think I will be able to sleep. Will see you & Mike on Sunday!
    Love to you my precious daughter,
    Your MaMa D.

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  25. Hi Lori & Mike !
    It's me ANGEL ! Remember, you guys brought me over to my mom's house so I could be hers ? Well I just want to say thanks a lot cuz I really love her & my new step daddy! They have me sooo spoiled so I figure if I just keep doing cute stuff for them to laugh about I got it made here & I owe it all to you !! My mom has told me about you being sick Lori, she holds me real tight sometimes & talks about you real quitely...but I am here to make her feel better. Well I gotta go, takes time to find just the right place to sleep at nights, usually it is on my moms cheek till she gently pushes me off, something about her wanting to breathe then I just either go down by her legs or go & bug my daddy. Bye, luv U "ANGEL"

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  26. Mike, this is Jody Lori's youngest sister, Let me start by saying I was so sad to hear that Lori has passed away but try to take peace in the fact she is no longer suffering. I spoke with Ann and she wanted me to ask if you can call her if you do not have her phone number please email me at jtandjody@live.com so I can get it to you. You are in my prayers

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